Embalming is the chemical preservation of a dead body. It slows down the natural process of decomposition. There are several reasons why decedents are frequently embalmed at the funeral home. Usually, families will not hold the funeral services shortly after the death. It may take a few days to make the arrangements. Embalming the body preserves it so that the family does not need to rush. In addition, embalming may sometimes be required by state or local law.
Embalming isn’t always necessary if the decedent will be cremated not long after death. However, many families prefer to hold a wake prior to cremation, or perhaps a traditional funeral service with cremation to follow. In these cases, embalming will be necessary.
For the answers to all of your questions about making funeral arrangements near San Diego, your family can turn to Greenwood Memorial Park & Mortuary. Call (619) 701-6473 or visit our website to begin exploring our cemetery options.
Although it is the natural conclusion of life, death isn’t something that most people enjoy discussing or planning for. Yet, funeral pre-planning is a smart choice for every adult, regardless of their age or health status. If you haven’t made your own pre-need arrangements yet, consider visiting a funeral home near you.
Your loved ones won’t have to make these tough decisions.
Many people decide to plan their own funerals after going through the experience of making the arrangements for someone else, such as a parent. If you’ve had to make arrangements, then you already know how difficult it can be to think clearly in the wake of a loved one’s death. You might second-guess your decisions, wonder how much money you should spend, and remain unsure that the arrangements would have suited the decedent. Grieving a loved one is difficult enough. Pre-planning your own arrangements can spare your own family the burden of making these decisions.
You can pre-fund your funeral arrangements.
Another reason why it makes sense to choose pre-need plans is because you can choose to pre-fund them. It isn’t mandatory, of course, but paying your own funeral expenses long before you expect to have need of them will spare your surviving loved ones these financial difficulties. Pre-funding your plan also guards against inflation.
Your pre-funded plan can move where you do.
Some people have concerns about losing their pre-funded plans if they end up using a different funeral home. Choose a funeral home that places the funds in a state-approved trust account or an insurance company. Your pre-funded plan will follow you wherever you choose to live in the U.S.
Your services will be held in accordance with your preferences.
A final compelling reason to make your own pre-need arrangements is the peace of mind that comes from knowing that your wishes will be respected. Of course, you could simply tell your spouse that you prefer to be cremated, but what if your spouse forgets or passes on before you do? Putting your wishes into a pre-need plan ensures that they will be respected.
The leading provider of funeral pre-planning services in San Diego is Greenwood Memorial Park & Mortuary. When you’re ready to pre-plan a funeral, you’ll receive all the information you need to make difficult decisions. Call us at (619) 701-6473 to learn more.
Funeral services are difficult, even if you weren’t close to the decedent. Many people are uncomfortable with the thought of death, and being unsure of the proper etiquette doesn’t help matters. Before you go to the funeral home, take a few minutes to brush up on the dos and don’ts of funeral etiquette.
Taking Your Cellphone
Taking a cell phone and leaving it on is one of the biggest mistakes a person can make at a funeral service. It’s easy to forget that you have your cellphone in your pocket or purse, especially if you’re accustomed to carrying it around with you. Before you exit your car, double-check your pockets or purse to make sure you don’t bring your phone in with you.
Avoiding the Family
Your presence at a visitation, funeral service at a house of worship, or graveside service demonstrates your support for the family. But it’s best not to leave without speaking with the mourners, even if you do not know them well. At a visitation, join the receiving line when you first arrive. You’ll wait in line to pay your respects at the casket before going down the receiving line of family members. Shake hands with each mourner and offer a few words of condolence. Then, you may take a seat if you wish to stay. When you attend a funeral service at a house of worship, you’ll likely shake hands and speak briefly with the family upon entering. Arrive early to ensure you do not miss this opportunity.
It isn’t customary to take photographs at a funeral. In fact, it’s almost never appropriate. The only reason why you might breach this rule of etiquette is if the family has specifically asked you to do so. If this is the case, use your discretion. Being respectful of the mourners takes precedence over recording the occasion.
Greenwood Memorial Park & Mortuary has been honored to serve families near San Diego with respectful funeral services since 1907. We invite you to walk the grounds of our memorial park and visit our funeral home when you’re ready to make the arrangements. We’re available at (619) 701-6473 to address all of your concerns.
Arriving at the funeral home properly dressed is a sign of respect for the decedent and the mourners. Before getting dressed for the funeral, take a minute to consider whether certain attire is dictated by cultural or religious traditions. If not, then dress in the same formal, understated manner you would use for a job interview.
For more helpful hints, watch this featured video. It recommends a jacket and tie for men, and a pantsuit, skirt suit, or conservative dress for ladies. Choose close-toe shoes, and wear minimal makeup and jewelry.
When it’s time to say your final goodbyes at a respectful funeral service near San Diego, Greenwood Memorial Park & Mortuary is here for your family. Call our funeral home at (619) 701-6473 to begin making funeral arrangements.
Greenwood Memorial Park & Mortuary is pleased to announce the opening of our new cremation garden, Mirror Lake. Mirror Lake is situated at the center of our cemetery and offers an array of options for families seeking both cremation options and traditional burial.
Mirror Lake features beautiful amenities, including a running stream, footbridge, and fountain. Private family estates are available for families who prefer cremation and those who are choosing traditional burial. For those seeking individual cremation options, we offer granite niches, pedestals, benches, and many other features that allow you to design a personalized memorial for your loved one.
To learn more about Mirror Lake, contact Greenwood Memorial Park & Mortuary today. We’re pleased to offer a variety of options to accommodate every preference and budget. Be sure to also ask about the rest of the services at our funeral home in San Diego, including funeral pre-planning and grief counseling. Contact us today by calling (619) 701-6473.
Whether you are planning a Jewish funeral service or are attending one for the first time, you may have some questions about the traditions you may encounter. Read on to take a closer look at Jewish funeral services and the other traditional parts of saying goodbye to a loved one of the Jewish faith.
Jewish Funeral Service Timing
Within the Jewish faith, funerals are supposed to occur as soon as possible after a death. Although having the funeral within a day is preferable, this tenet can be relaxed if people must travel a long distance for the funeral or if there are other issues that could delay the timing of a funeral. From the moment of death, the body of the person who has died cannot be left alone and must always be accompanied by a shomer, or guardian. The funeral home can often help families find an appropriate shomer as well as a rabbi, if necessary. The funeral home can also help facilitate the funeral planning process so that it can happen as quickly as necessary for the family.
Viewings and Funeral Services
In most cases, there is no viewing or wake for Jewish funerals, though families may participate in a rite called keriah, during which an item of clothing or piece of black ribbon is torn and then worn throughout the funeral and mourning period. The funeral service itself may be held at a synagogue, at a funeral home, or at the graveside. Views on burial and cremation vary in the Jewish community, so interment can take either form.
After the funeral, a period of mourning called shiva begins. Shiva translates to seven, and it is a seven-day period in which close family members of the deceased gather together each day for mourning and prayer. The family does not work during this time, and they will receive guests who wish to offer condolences. After shiva, shloshim begins for the next 30 days. Family members return to work but still pray together daily. The end of shloshim marks the end of the official mourning period, except in the case of the death of a parent, in which case it lasts for a year.
Greenwood Memorial Park & Mortuary is experienced in planning Jewish funeral ceremonies and is here to help your family after a loved one passes away. To get more information about funeral ceremonies in San Diego, call (619) 701-6473.
When a funeral service for a loved one is approaching, many parents struggle with the decision about whether or not to take their children. The best way to decide is to talk to your child and find out his or her preferences. Many children would prefer to be involved in funeral services rather than left out of them.
Watch this video for tips on attending a funeral service with your child. If your child wishes to go, talk to him or her about what to expect and look for ways for him or her to be involved. For instance, your child may wish to draw pictures or may want to sit by the guest book at the funeral home.
At Greenwood Memorial Park & Mortuary, we are committed to helping families build personalized memorials to their lost loved ones. In your time of need, contact us at (619) 701-6473 to find out more about funeral planning in San Diego.
Cremation is a respectful alternative to burial. It’s commonly thought that cremation limits a family’s options for funeral arrangements. In truth, choosing cremation instead of a traditional burial actually broadens the possibilities with the funeral arrangements. One path your family may choose is direct cremation.
Defining Direct Cremation
Cremation is the process of rendering a body into its basic components. The resulting remains may be referred to as cremated remains or ashes. A family may hold a visitation and funeral service prior to the cremation, but this is certainly not mandatory. When the decedent is cremated first, before any sort of ceremony, it is referred to as a direct cremation. Direct cremations do not include a viewing of the body, although they may include a service held after the cremation.
Understanding the Reasons for Choosing It
The reasons behind funeral arrangements are always personal, but one common consideration is the travel arrangements of the mourners. When a loved one dies, family members may come from near and far to mourn their loss. It’s often difficult for those who live far away to quickly make travel arrangements, particularly when religious custom or cultural tradition dictates that the body must be cremated within a certain time period after death. Another consideration is cost. The expense of direct cremation is typically lower because there is no need to purchase a casket for the visitation, prepare the body, or transport the body to the cemetery. In other cases, the decedent may have specified the preference for direct cremation in his or her pre-need arrangements.
Considering the Memorial Options
Direct cremation does not exclude the possibility of a thoughtful memorial. Families may hold a funeral or memorial service at any time after the cremation. They may choose to inter the cremated remains at a columbarium or memorial bench. Alternatively, cremated remains may be respectfully scattered, made into cremation jewelry, or even shot into space. There are many memorial options to suit the personality of every decedent.
For at-need arrangements and funeral pre-planning services in San Diego, families have long turned to Greenwood Memorial Park & Mortuary. Our cremation ceremonies can be personalized to suit the unique needs of your family and to reflect the spirit of your loved one. Call us at (619) 701-6473 and let us know how we can help you.
Greenwood Memorial Park & Mortuary provides thoughtful funeral arrangements to honor the lives of those who have passed on. When planning your loved one’s funeral service, you may wish to include elements of our Signature Services℠ to reflect the personality of the decedent. Many families have opted for our Flight Home® Ceremony, which is a beautiful addition that lends symbolic meaning. Per your request, our funeral home can arrange the release of doves or butterflies. We can also arrange a musical tribute to your loved one. Request a harpist, string trio, or bagpipe player.
Some of our Signature Services℠ are designed to serve as lasting memorials for future generations. Our Memorial Candles are created with select flowers from the floral tributes. We can also provide a DVD memorial tribute and a framed memory portrait for your family.
To discuss our Signature Services ℠ or other funeral arrangements, families near San Diego can contact us at (619) 701-6473. Greenwood Memorial Park & Mortuary extends our sincere condolences for your family’s loss.
The powerful feelings of grief are traditionally associated with the time after a loved one has died. Anticipatory grief is arguably less well-known and, as a result, many people experiencing it fail to seek the grief support they need from a mental health counselor or funeral home. Anticipatory grief can encompass any of the usual emotions of grief, but it occurs before a loved one has died. It is commonly experienced after a loved one has been diagnosed with a terminal illness. In some cases, it can last for years.
Accept Your Limitations
Because grief is widely understood to develop after a loss, you might feel as though you’re losing self-control when you experience feelings of grief prior to the loss. Some people report feeling as though they’re going slightly insane. You might feel utterly exhausted, unable to think clearly, and excessively forgetful. You might verbally lash out at others for no good reason or you might feel so overwhelmed that you are tempted to lock yourself in a dark room and cry. These are all normal reactions. In truth, there is no “abnormal” reaction to an anticipated loss. To cope with anticipatory grief, it is essential to acknowledge that you’re going through challenging times. Accept your limitations, scale down your daily responsibilities whenever possible, and give yourself permission to truly feel your emotions.
When a loved one is dying, it’s only natural to want to spend more time with him or her. But during your time away from your ailing loved one, try to distract yourself from reality. Dwelling on the anticipated loss and considering what life might be like without your loved one will not likely calm your mind. Give yourself some time each day to enjoy any activity that distracts you. Read an engrossing book, do yoga poses while listening to meditation music, watch a movie, or play a musical instrument. Distracting yourself before going to bed is always a good idea, since anticipatory grief can easily lead to insomnia.
Greenwood Memorial Park & Mortuary is a funeral home in San Diego that is pleased to offer grief support services to area families. To discuss a loved one’s funeral arrangements, call (619) 701-6473. Our funeral directors can also help you with funeral pre-planning.